Life has no cliche

"Life". I guess it's the smallest word with meanings deeper than one can  ever imagine. We spend so much time in trying to figure it out that we almost forget to live it. But what does "living life" means? Breathing ? Or waking up every morning? Or surviving each day? Again it's something which every person has a different view point about. Though there's one thing that everyone agrees upon about life. It's the fact that it can't be planned. You sleep thinking I ll be there at this time morrow, and  then ur alarm goes off :P.  If life had been a person, probably he would be the meanest fellow, yet everyone would want him to befriend them. When life makes all our plan fall apart we start cribbing about how unfair life is. Why? Ummm, well coz It's always easier to crib. Cry about this, feel hurt about that, get upset coz that didn't happen, grieve coz this happened. Isn't it?But is it fair to always curse life when something goes wrong?...

I love my life and I am blessed that Almighty has given me all the privileges which I never asked for. But He makes sure that I ache, every once in a while. I get a pain so piercing that I shed blood instead of tears. I know it's a little over rated description of the pain but that's how it feels when  everything around you stop making any sense. You feel so lost that you wonder what your life is for. You feel so abandoned that you doubt if you matter to anyone or not.  You feel so hurt that nothing but tears relieve you. But then it goes away but takes all the strength you had. Leaving you weak and hanging with all the thoughts that came to you. You keep longing to get those questions answered. But life has plans and it plays one card at a time. Amidst the cycle of pain, question and relief there's a lesson that life wants to teach us.  Its upto us to remember these learnings to avoid that ache again or forget and then hurt ourself again. But whatever that ex...