Life has no cliche

"Life". I guess it's the smallest word with meanings deeper than one can  ever imagine. We spend so much time in trying to figure it out that we almost forget to live it. But what does "living life" means? Breathing ? Or waking up every morning? Or surviving each day? Again it's something which every person has a different view point about. Though there's one thing that everyone agrees upon about life. It's the fact that it can't be planned. You sleep thinking I ll be there at this time morrow, and  then ur alarm goes off :P.  If life had been a person, probably he would be the meanest fellow, yet everyone would want him to befriend them. When life makes all our plan fall apart we start cribbing about how unfair life is. Why? Ummm, well coz It's always easier to crib. Cry about this, feel hurt about that, get upset coz that didn't happen, grieve coz this happened. Isn't it?But is it fair to always curse life when something goes wrong?...

I love my life and I am blessed that Almighty has given me all the privileges which I never asked for. But He makes sure that I ache, every once in a while. I get a pain so piercing that I shed blood instead of tears. I know it's a little over rated description of the pain but that's how it feels when  everything around you stop making any sense. You feel so lost that you wonder what your life is for. You feel so abandoned that you doubt if you matter to anyone or not.  You feel so hurt that nothing but tears relieve you. But then it goes away but takes all the strength you had. Leaving you weak and hanging with all the thoughts that came to you. You keep longing to get those questions answered. But life has plans and it plays one card at a time. Amidst the cycle of pain, question and relief there's a lesson that life wants to teach us.  Its upto us to remember these learnings to avoid that ache again or forget and then hurt ourself again. But whatever that ex...

We live our life in pieces a little here n a little there so we could spend time with everyone and be at every place. But as time goes by  we realise that we are torn in so many pieces that there's no one and there's no place where we are needed as a whole.. The  sense of incompleteness never leaves our mind. The reality that those pieces that we lend to everyone was never acknowledged haunts. While everyone cherishes the whole companions, we stand there alone and broken into pieces. But doesn't it count ? The part that we played? the memories that we made? the lives that we touched? It does!!  Then where do v go wrong n lead ourself to a situation like that... actually living life in pieces is really not that bad. The only thing to be cautious about is you should neither break yourself so much that it becomes difficult to gather yourself back nor be scared so much from being broken that you miss a part you could have played or a life that u could have touched...the ...

It's been quite a few weeks that I wrote a blog. That's not because I was busy but because I was blank. Blank as in I had nothing about life that I haven't said or wrote earlier. Like life is about hopes,dreams,decisions blah blah blah.... But today it struck me, that we haven't taken into account something which is now a big part of everyone's life.  These are what may trigger almost any emotion be it happiness, sorrow, betrayal, envy or love...Any guesses? They are LIES... Surprised?? Think for a while, then u ll get the idea and probably u can think of a lie, that u told, that involved any of those emotion. A lie that made someone happy, a lie that made someone cry,a lie that made someone feel cheated, a lie that made someone jealous. It's not real if you say you never lie. Everyone lies! its just the degree that varies from person to person.  Our parents always taught us "never lie" but today we need to lie may be because the truth is not alwa...

"Life is not a bed of roses", whoever said that had their reality check glasses on... Its true, and no one can deny the fact that life is a ride that takes you high sometime and low on the other.  The spark of this title comes from a little discussion (should actually say a heated argument :D) I had,last weekend, with one of my friend (lets say A, just to make narration easier). The theme of the discussion was about our another common friend(say B) who has a huge crush and great affection for a movie actor(say X :D)..yeah, we r friends n we talk ;). so the point of discussion was that A was really amazed by the over-rated reaction of B when he said that X isn't worth to be adored so much and its really unrealistic to love someone crazily who a matter of fact is not even real. So he felt that B is being immature by fighting to her friends for a movie actor that she fantasizes about... As usual everyone kept standing on their opinions. Later that night I realized that B...

The name sounds as if  m gonna lecture about a mind boggling physics theory. But relax, m still talking about life^__^. Isn't it obvious? what else could be a better term to describe life than 'uncertain' (btw 'beautiful' is my favorite ;-), but we ll stick to 'uncertain' here)... Our life begin with uncertainty, we live with uncertainty and ofcourse we die uncertainly. Inspite of all such great uncertainty, the life goes on. And at times I wonder Wat gives us the guiding light in this fog of uncertainty. It's not such a tough question. We all know the answer. But again we are uncertain about that too!!! For some its a person whom they respect like their parents or a teacher, for some its a person close to their heart like a good friend and for some its a faint voice inside their head. All these guiding lights can just give u a direction and not the assurance that you ll reach ur destination. But most of the time we do survive these uncertainty and move...

This goes way back to when we were kids. Our Dad always used to enlighten us with stories that had different element of learning. He once mentioned that life could be seen in three forms, namely air,fire n earth. Those made of Air are "Farishte" and are the most noble. Those made of fire are "Jinn" and are extremely powerful. And last those made of earth are we, humans. Surely, we are not the noble and the powerful kind but still God has ranked us as the supreme form of life aka "khususul makhlukat" ( a big term to digest I know ;-))! Quite puzzling right?? Was a riddle for me too. But before I answer why, there used to be one more question that always came to me when I was a kid (ummm, I always had weird set of questions, I mean all kids have, don't they?) This question popped up during another enlightening session of my dad. He said that not even the smallest particle can move against God's will... The question that rose was, " if nothing h...

Its always been easier to pen down what goes on in my  mind than speaking it out... but with so many things going around at the same time writing down all the crazy thoughts running in my mind is kinda difficult.. so starting a journey here and making it a habit to write down... :) Life is too short to regret but still gives a lot of pain... but one thing can always keep you going, that is HOPE.. Hope that the world would be a better place to live.. Hope that the pain would come to an end... Hope that there would be sunshine after the storm... Hope that there would always be a reason for you to Hope.. :) so lets hope that this beginning never ends... :)