Life love lies

It's been quite a few weeks that I wrote a blog. That's not because I was busy but because I was blank. Blank as in I had nothing about life that I haven't said or wrote earlier. Like life is about hopes,dreams,decisions blah blah blah.... But today it struck me, that we haven't taken into account something which is now a big part of everyone's life.  These are what may trigger almost any emotion be it happiness, sorrow, betrayal, envy or love...Any guesses? They are LIES... Surprised?? Think for a while, then u ll get the idea and probably u can think of a lie, that u told, that involved any of those emotion.

A lie that made someone happy, a lie that made someone cry,a lie that made someone feel cheated, a lie that made someone jealous. It's not real if you say you never lie. Everyone lies! its just the degree that varies from person to person.  Our parents always taught us "never lie" but today we need to lie may be because the truth is not always appreciated or sometime because truth isn't strong enough as an excuse. Our parents also taught us "people who lie are bad". So does a little lie now n then makes us also a bad person?? A little lie that "I am well" to your mother when actually you are not, a little lie that "I can manage" to your dad when actually everything is too screwed up, a little lie that "I don't love you" to him when actually you do a lot... Nah, a little lie doesn't makes us bad... But yeah it is bad when lying is no more a need but a habit. A habit that u are very well aware of. For those kind of people lying is just an easy way out of any situation, may be because they don't have courage to be honest or may be they choose to be that way.. they can never be trusted upon. Such kind of lying is bad. So the nitty-gritty of the whole lying stuff is a little lie here and there is not bad as long as it isn't hampering the trust of the people who love you unconditionally... One more thing to be remembered is when a situation comes that you can not speak out the truth, make sure you don't lie infront of the most important person in your life i.e, yourself.